post- KWP

for those wondering what's KWP= kentut wangi phase

my mom said that true love is when u clean up ur other halfs feces and pee when he/she can't anymore diligently without cringing.

yesterday marked wt was to me the first yr. i can't define an exact date coz there isn't one bt personally it was the 13th feb last yr that i thought ' well, this guy might be good for me'. i would like to think back on the differences as time has passed by.

well, i learnt that it ain't all roses and hearts but it can be painful as well. last yr, the centre of everything was getting to know each other, suddenly finding myself into a person i never thought i would be and spending almost every minute with each other. all smiles, never wrong, jokes and laughter. in short = cloud 9. besides that, i have wanted and still am waiting for the magic question that never seems to pop up.

i can say that since july 2009, i have had to grow up. my views are not the same. i found that a partnership is more important than a relationship. where clashes do happen, where we evolve and move from our views. in the past, someone taught me that if ur in a relationship, you need to talk and be honest. i can see that this is true. in the past, i preferred not to coz of the effect it mite cause. no, it doesn't stop me from shaking and scared to death everytime a problem is talked about now although it is done owh-so-politely. i realize that patience is a virtue and that in order to solve a problem, an understanding has to be made.

of course if i had it my way, it would be more than hw it is now. but well, it's not just about the two of us anymore. what effects that person effects me as well. i think more, reflect more on how i treat my family on how to improve myself.

nobody, nobody is perfect. both of us have made our mistakes no matter how severe they are. that is why we remind each other when somebody is doing something wrong.
yes, i do get jealous of those who are still in the KWP phase and i am still waiting for that question, but well i guess it's worth the wait. we make mistakes, learn from them and evolve together to become better people.